Category: Family

Sep 26 2009

Explaining Death to Your Child

It may seem hard to tell him, but honesty is the best policy.

It may seem hard to tell him, but honesty is the best policy.

It can be very rough when a family member dies. For younger children, it can be even more difficult. This is because many young children will not understand what is going on. If you are a parent who is trying to explain death to your child, you may not be sure what exactly to say. Here are some tips on how to explain death to your child.

Being Honest

It can seem difficult to tell your child about a death. In fact, there are some people who may even lie or put the truth offer until a moment when the timing seems right. Unfortunately, this is the worst thing that you can do. Be honest about the death. Let your child know that the person has died. It may seem hard, but saying it flat out can be for the better.

A Happy Place

Let your child know that the family member is in a happy place. One of the biggest problems with death is that many child fear that their family member is somewhere, having the same feelings that they are. Letting your child know that the deceased is in a better place is an important key to helping them cope.

Mention Other Deceased

Try to bring up a family member, friend, or pet who has died already. Tell your child that the deceased family member is in heaven with the other deceased person or animal. This will help your child understand that their family member is not going to be coming back at any point. They will realize that just like the other deceased person or animal that they know of, the family member is only going to be in their memories.

No More Suffering

Tell your child that the family member is no longer in pain. If the family member died because of cancer or another condition that causes them to experience a lot of suffering, this is the best thing that you can tell their child. While it is unlikely that it will make them feel better about the death at the moment, it is likely that they will remember in years to come that their family member is no longer in pain.

It can be difficult for a child to cope with a death. If you begin to notice that your child is having an unusually hard time coping with the death of your family member, it may be a good idea to consider grief counseling for your child. A therapist may be able to find a way to better explain death to your child than you can.

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