Parents often wonder if their teenage children are having sex. Although there is no way to be sure unless you catch your teen in the act or your teen admits it to you, there are a number of signs which may indicate it. Here are some of the different things to look out for if you’re trying to determine whether your teen child may be sexually active.

Birth Control Pill

If your daughter has asked to go on the birth control pill, there is a possibility that  it may be because she wants to become sexually active. Keep in mind that there are other legitimate reasons that your teenage child may want to go on the birth control pill, such as an irregular period or acne. However, there is a possibility that these may even be used as excuses to get on the pill. It is hard to know either way.

Condoms

A huge indicator of your teen being sexually active is if he or she has condoms. Most teens will keep condoms in their drawers unless they are smart enough to know that you would look there. Be sure to check their receipts to find out if they have purchased condoms. Also keep in mind that if your child is having sex in your home, there is a possibility that you will find used condoms in the garbage.

Dating

When teenagers begin dating, there is a possibility that they may be sexually active. This is especially true if your son or daughter is in an exclusive relationship. Most teens will not have sexual intercourse while their parents are at home, though some will. If the teens ever have the house to themselves, you may need to worry, however.

These are just a few of the different signs which may indicate that your son or daughter is sexually active. Unless you catch your teen child having sexual intercourse, there is really no way to know for sure, however. Remind your teen that in the event that they do have sex, you want them to come to talk to you about it beforehand. This is a good way to encourage them to be prepared and use contraception when the time for them to have sexual intercourse does come.